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  1. Here are the last recommended posting dates to ensure your parcel arrives before Christmas HOWEVER, I absolutely recommend ordering sooner rather than later to avoid disappointment.  Royal Mail are always under so much pressure at this busy time of year so parcels can take longer to arrive.  Also as a small business, I can only have so much stock at a time and if I sell out of a particular size or style I can't always guarantee that it will be restocked again this side of Christmas.  I will of course still be posting out your orders as notmal even after the last posting dates and also between Christmas and New Year, around Bank Holidays.

    Please note these are guidelines, once I've passed on your order to Royal Mail I can't control the speed of delivery speed or upgrade postage once your parcel has left me.   I always appreciate all of your support, regardless of the time of year so if you are thinking of buying something as a gift then please order earlier to make sure your parcel is with you in good time.  

    Breastfeeding clothing - Christmas post dates 2024

  2. It's November, so it's ok to mention the C-word, right?

    I get lots of lovely customers buying as gifts for other people all year round, but especially at Christmas time. It's lovely as our clothes are for mums, who sometimes don't get prioritised in the madness of baby's first Christmas.  BUT it's so tricky to know your own size post partum, even more so someone else's size. 

    That's where gift vouchers are just so good.  Buying a voucher means gifting your loved one the freedom to choose what they want or need most, which can be invaluable. Plus they get to choose to shop want whenever they're ready (night feed shopping anyone?!)  As always any purchase made with our gift vouchers is still covered by our full return and refund policy. 

    I've re-designed our gift vouchers for the festive season and they're now available to purchase in either £20, £30 or £50 here x

    Breastfeeding clothing vouchers

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  3. breastfeeding clothing - sustainable

    As a small business we don't have the luxury of large warehouses or storage facilities, this means that it can be tricky to keep hold of off-season or end of line stock. Take our winter jumpers for example, they are lovely and snuggly but their bulky size means they take up lots of room.  This can mean I hold off ordering summer items as I simply don't have the space for them!  Equally offering customers pre-loved options of our styles is something that's I've been looking into for a while.  So we've collaborated with Holleo to bring you a hotMaMa outlet featuring end of line items along with pre-loved hotMaMa breastfeed clothes.

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    What are the benefits of a hotMaMa breastfeeding clothing outlet?

    Amazing bargains

    Shopping for pre-loved or end of line items is a great way to grab a bargain item at a fraction of it's original price.

    Unique pieces

    You'll find some discontinued items there that I no longer stock or manufacture.  Lots of our printed fabric styles for example are now really expensive for me to to manufacture, but they're something I know customers love and can be found in the outlet.

    Sustainability

    Not only is it great for you as the customer it's also beneficial for the environment.  By purchasing pre-loved items, you're giving a second life to clothing that may otherwise end up in a landfill which seems crazy as I've always aimed to produce high quality clothes designed to last for years, so they still have so much life left in them!

    Mums supporting mums

    Both hotMaMa and Holleo are both small mum run brands.  By purchasing products or services from mum entrepreneurs, you are directly supporting them and their families, supporting mums to contribute to the economy and pursue their passions without compromising time with their little ones. Additionally, many mum-run businesses offer unique and innovative products that may not be readily available in mainstream markets, giving you the customer access to a more diverse range of goods.

    Shop the hotMaMa breastfeeding clothing outlet here

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  4. The first week of breastfeeding your baby is a crucial time for both you and your little one as you establish a strong breastfeeding relationship. Understanding the different stages of breastfeeding post-birth can help you navigate this emotional, challenging and rewarding journey.

    1. The Early Days
    In the beginning, you and your baby are just getting to know each other. Your newborn may feed frequently, often every 1-3 hours, as they work on establishing your milk supply and their own feeding rhythm. It's normal for your baby to feed for varying lengths of time during each session.  Colostrum is the first milk produced by the breasts after giving birth. It is rich in nutrients, antibodies, and white blood cells, providing essential nourishment and immune protection to newborns. Colostrum is thick and yellowish in color and is low in fat but high in protein and carbohydrates. It acts as a natural laxative to help the baby pass meconium and clear out their digestive system. 


    2. Engorgement and Adjustments
    Around day 3-5 post-birth, (although it will vary) your milk supply may increase, leading to engorged breasts.  This is when your "milk comes in", it can be uncomfortable but is usually temporary. Ensuring proper latch and feeding frequently can help relieve engorgement.  At this time, colostrum transitions into mature breastmilk, which has a higher fat content and continues to provide important nutrients for the baby's growth and development. The composition of breastmilk changes throughout your breastfeeding journet to meet the evolving needs of your baby, making it a unique and powerful source of nutrition.


    3. Cluster Feeding
    Cluster feeding, where your baby feeds more frequently for a period of time, is common during the first week and again when your baby has a growth spurt. This can be exhausting but is your baby's way of increasing your milk supply and meeting their growing needs.


    4. Seeking Support
    Breastfeeding is bloody hard work and let's not forget that as a new mum you've also just given birth, are quite likely sleep deprived and adjusting to life as a new parent.  It is intense which is why it's important to ask for help .  You can reach out for support from a lactation consultant, breastfeeding support group, or your healthcare provider. They can offer guidance, reassurance, and practical tips to help you through any challenges you may face.
    Remember, every breastfeeding journey is unique, and it's okay to ask for help when needed. Stay patient, trust your instincts, and cherish these precious moments bonding with your baby during their first week of breastfeeding.

  5. Breastfeeding is bloody hard work(Did you know that on average, one year of breastfeeding equates to around of1,800 hours feeding time. Let's compare that to a 40-hour work week with holiday which comes in at 1,960 hours and we can see that breastfeeding alone is equivalent to a full time job and that's before we even begin to add in any other parenting responsibilities)But breastfeeding can have some amazing benefits for both mum and baby. 

    Nourishment 

    Breast milk is the perfect meal to meet your newborn baby's nutritional needsBreast milk is packed with essential nutrients, antibodies, and enzymes that aid in the baby's growth and development. It is easily digestible, reducing the risk of gastrointestinal issues and allergies The NHS recommends giving nothing but breast milk for the first 6 months (26 weeks) of your baby's life.  After that, you continue breastfeeding but also introduce solid foodsThe amazing thing here is that your breast milk will adapt as your baby grows to meet your baby's changing needs.  Breastfeeding has also been linked to lower rates of childhood obesity, infections, and chronic diseases later in life.  

    The bond 

    Breastfeeding also fosters a strong emotional bond between the mother and child, promoting feelings of security and closeness .For mothers, breastfeeding can also reduce the risk of breast and ovarian cancer later in life, and can facilitate emotional well-being.    

     

    However, many mothers face challenges when it comes to breastfeeding, which is why breastfeeding support is crucial. Support groups, lactation consultants, and education about breastfeeding techniques can help mothers overcome obstacles and ensure successful breastfeeding experiences for both mother and child. 

    Fast food 

    Breastmilk really is the perfect fast food.  As long as you are with your child they will always have a ready supply of food whenever your baby is ready to eat.  Breast milk is always fresh and exactly the right temperature. It is ready for your baby whenever they are ready to eat. You do not have to heat it, boil water or sterilize bottles and many mums find this makes feeding so much easier! 

    Environmental wins 

    Yep, you guessed it as breast milk is completely packaging free and doesn't require energy for sterilizing bottles it's a great option for the environment too. 

    Budget friendly 

    Not having to purchase bottles, milk or sterilizers means onless thing to buy for a new baby. (Sure there are other costs to breastfeeding, like the time commitment for mum to feel and I’m passionate that this isn’t overlooked as simply free work from mum!) But when it comes to your weekly shopping bills breastfeeding can be a cheaper option.